если ничего не поможет, буду кидать лог-файлы ...
java.log
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1144059735911 INFO 10 net.sf.l2j.Config loading gameserver config
1144059735968 INFO 10 net.sf.l2j.Config Say Filter: Loaded 11 filter words.
1144059736079 INFO 10 com.mchange.v2.log.MLog MLog clients using java 1.4+ standard logging.
1144059736172 INFO 10 com.mchange.v2.c3p0.C3P0Registry Initializing c3p0-0.9.0.4 [built 03-April-2006 09:49:59 +0000; debug? false; trace: 5]
1144059736748 INFO 10 com.mchange.v2.c3p0.PoolBackedDataSource Initializing c3p0 pool... com.mchange.v2.c3p0.PoolBackedDataSource
1319c [ connectionPoolDataSource -> com.mchange.v2.c3p0.WrapperConnectionPoolDataSource
1ef9157 [ acquireIncrement -> 3, acquireRetryAttempts -> 30, acquireRetryDelay -> 1000, autoCommitOnClose -> true, automaticTestTable -> null, breakAfterAcquireFailure -> false, checkoutTimeout -> 0, connectionTesterClassName -> com.mchange.v2.c3p0.impl.DefaultConnectionTester, factoryClassLocation -> null, forceIgnoreUnresolvedTransactions -> false, identityToken -> 1ef9157, idleConnectionTestPeriod -> 0, initialPoolSize -> 1, maxIdleTime -> 0, maxPoolSize -> 10, maxStatements -> 100, maxStatementsPerConnection -> 0, minPoolSize -> 1, nestedDataSource -> com.mchange.v2.c3p0.DriverManagerDataSource
199f91c [ description -> null, driverClass -> null, factoryClassLocation -> null, identityToken -> 199f91c, jdbcUrl -> jdbc:mysql://127.0.0.1/l2jdb, properties -> {user=******, password=******} ], preferredTestQuery -> null, propertyCycle -> 300, testConnectionOnCheckin -> false, testConnectionOnCheckout -> false, usesTraditionalReflectiveProxies -> false ], factoryClassLocation -> null, identityToken -> 1319c, numHelperThreads -> 3 ]
1144059766496 WARNING 11 com.mchange.v2.resourcepool.BasicResourcePool com.mchange.v2.resourcepool.BasicResourcePool$AcquireTask@1e97f9f — Acquisition Attempt Failed!!! Clearing pending acquires. While trying to acquire a needed new resource, we failed to succeed more than the maximum number of allowed acquisition attempts (30).
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